March 29th, 2011 
Suspended my Netflix account.
Still packing, desperately needing boxes. Downstairs, I pulled up everything in that storage room, which was the contents brought so far from storage when I actually thought I was going to be living here permanently, and her mother had finally moved, so I could do that. But only after we had ripped up the carpet down there and cleaned the unbelievable nastiness her mother lived in. 
bleach fumes, up and down stairs, aching body. I realized I would have to leave some things behind because it wouldn’t fit in my car or in storage, and I simply could not make another trip up those stairs carrying things. I was lucky I hadn’t ruptured another disc already. So I made some hard choices. All my art supplies, boxes of many things like old floppy discs, which I hoped my writing was not on without having been transferred last time I tackled that project. Took some pictures.
bleach fumes, up and down stairs, aching body. I realized I would have to leave some things behind because it wouldn’t fit in my car or in storage, and I simply could not make another trip up those stairs carrying things. I was lucky I hadn’t ruptured another disc already. So I made some hard choices. All my art supplies, boxes of many things like old floppy discs, which I hoped my writing was not on without having been transferred last time I tackled that project. Took some pictures.Called Qwest/DTV to put account on hold can’t believe they did that again, since I just took it off and switched it about a month ago. Called Extended Stay again. Still trying to work out a way to get a room for two days. Not enough on my credit card for that. Not enough cash left in the bank. Qwest needed my new service address, so had to call then on 3 way call to get the address.
Debra called–victims advocate. Told me where the court testimony will be heard from me. Victims Witness office. Court building in Brighton. She said it’s likely D will only get 1 year probation. Still don’t know what all the charges are.
On Facebook, my friend WendyC sent me a message:
Jae,
Psycho Bitch is writing about you on Facebook! She doesn’t realize that she is “friends” with me and Brian!! lolol Do you want us to verbally attack her…or…wait to see what she writes about??
11 hours ago
D. ya, the dumb bitch lied and had me arrested for domestic violence. She distroyed my house and then told PD I did it. I NEVER expected this from her. I am so glad to be rid of her.
Infuriating. Especially, since in front of the cops (and for their benefit on Wednesday, she said “I just want to say, I’m sorry and I love you.”) How dare she blame me for what she did. Coward.
Surprisingly, when I called to beg for help from HHB card -a manager gave me a one time credit of $76. I intended to use that to pay for the u-Haul, as I had previously misread the data and where it said balance, I thought it meant available balance. So I didn’t have what I thought I had and now needed it because I had to go turn in U-Haul and HAD NO MONEY to pay for it. She said it would post on Thursday.
Then I realized after I hung up that wouldn’t help me pay for U-haul Now. Then I remembered I had those temp checks so I was going to pay that way. Then wen I went to turn in U-Haul she said the amount went through fine. Weird. So I didn’t have to write a check to them. Even though I wasted one by starting to write it.
Then I realized I needed that card balance to pay for my hotel, since they would not take cash or a check. And of course I didn’t have my debit card yet on new account. So I thought of pawning my Adamas. I hate to do that. It’s a $2000 guitar. And I love it. And sentimental value of my music days. But it IS a liquidatable asset. And I had to have some money. She even suggested putting the cash on one of those Walmart mastercards and using that, but they wouldn’t take that either because it wasn’t a “real” one. Pfft. Had to pawn Adamas.
I had to come up with a way for me to organize all the things I had to accomplish; problem solver extraordinaire. I had to alter it a little because of constraints my friend CW had in her schedule, but made it work.
- I would take hotel stuff plus mattress and bedding and fireplace to storage. Make room in storage for other things.
- Get the cats and crate and PC, take to CW’s downtown by 11am.
- 1pm, court in Brighton.
- After court, back to CW’s to pick up cats, PC, using keys CW gave me.
- Take her keys to her at work downtown.
- Get chg of address done at post office.
- Go back to storage for hotel stuff and mattress, add to Cherryot, attach mattress rolled up on top.
- Check in at hotel
Now that sounds simple enough, except it involved more struggling, lifting, carrying, etc. CW has apartment on 3rd floor. But she was trying to get ready for work and I started without her a little. But she came down and helped me carry Crate O’ Cats the rest of the way. Carried up my computer and monitor, too. I tried to open the water dish with lid on it for them inside but it had of course all leaked out. Replaced it and headed for court in Brighton.
